ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka mare ʻana i ka wahine hoʻokahi mai kāna mea aloha
I loko o nā moeʻuhane o ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi, hiki i ka ʻike o ka male ʻana i ke kanaka nāna i hoʻopiha i kona puʻuwai me ke aloha ke hōʻailona i nā hōʻailona like ʻole e hōʻike ana i kona mau makemake a me kona mau manaʻo. Ke moeʻuhane ʻo ia e mare ana i kāna ipo, he hōʻailona paha kēia o kona pili hohonu iā ia a me kona makemake e hoʻokō i kāna mau pahuhopu i ke ola. ʻO ka moeʻuhane i hui pū ʻia me ka ʻakaʻaka e hōʻike ana i ka hauʻoli a me ka manaʻo maikaʻi e pili ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana i piha i ka hauʻoli a me ka hiki ke hoʻomaka i kahi ola hou a hua, ʻoiai ke kaumaha i ka wā moeʻuhane hiki ke hōʻike i ka makaʻu o ka nalo ʻana i nā pilina koʻikoʻi a i ʻole ka manaʻo o ka naʻau.
I kekahi manawa ke komo ʻana i ka lole mare keʻokeʻo ma ka moeʻuhane he manaʻo ia o ka hiki ʻana mai o kahi mea hou ʻoluʻolu e like me ka male. Inā noʻonoʻo ke kaikamahine iā ia iho me kāna mea aloha i nā manawa pili iā ia, hōʻailona paha ia i nā loli maikaʻi e hiki mai ana i kona ola.
Eia nō naʻe, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke loaʻa nā ʻano ʻē aʻe inā pili ia i nā hiʻohiʻona e like me ka hula a me ka hīmeni ʻana ma kahi ʻahaʻaina mare, no ka mea, manaʻo ia e hiki mai ana nā pilikia a i ʻole nā pilikia. Inā loaʻa iā ia ke apo gula mai kāna mea aloha ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki ke unuhi ʻia kēia i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo o nā pilikia e hiki mai ana i loko o kā lāua pilina, ʻoiai ke apo kālā e kuhikuhi ana i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a me nā ʻike e hiki ke aʻo ʻia.
I kekahi manawa, lilo ka moeʻuhane i pōʻeleʻele inā hele pū ʻia me ka make ʻana o kahi mea aloha, ʻoiai e hōʻike ana i ka hopohopo o ke kaikamahine no kona olakino a i ʻole kona makaʻu i ka ʻeha o ke kino. Inā ʻike ʻo ia iā ia iho e hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻoiai e male ana i ke kanaka āna i aloha ai, he hōʻailona kēia i ka paio kūloko a i ʻole nā pilikia noʻonoʻo āna e kū nei.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka mare ʻana i kahi mea aloha no ka wahine hoʻokahi e like me Ibn Sirin
I ka wehewehe ʻana o kahi kaikamahine hoʻokahi e mare ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke hōʻike e loaʻa iā ia ka mālama a me ka palekana. I kekahi manawa ua wehewehe ʻia ka hihiʻo ma ke ʻano he manaʻo o nā kapu a me nā kuleana. I ka hihia o ka hihiʻo o ka mare ʻana i kekahi āna i aloha ai, hōʻike paha kēia i ka neʻe ʻana o ke kaikamahine i kahi kūlana hou o ke ola e komo pū ana me ka lawe ʻana i nā kuleana hou a me nā hoʻoikaika ʻana e hoʻokō i kāna mau pahuhopu, a i ʻole kēia ʻike he hōʻailona o kāna kūpaʻa hoʻomana a me ka pono.
Ma nā wehewehe ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka male ʻana i kahi mea aloha ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka kūleʻa ma ka hana a hiki i nā pahuhopu. Akā inā maʻi ka mea aloha i ka hihiʻo, hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i ke alo o nā pilikia a me nā pilikia i ke ola o ka mea moeʻuhane. Inā hoʻomanawanui ke kaikamahine a mare i kāna ipo, manaʻo paha ʻo ia e kū ana ka mea aloha i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia.
Ua hōʻike ʻia ma kekahi mau wehewehe ʻana ʻo ka mare ʻana i ke kanaka waiwai ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i nā pilina wahaheʻe a ʻaʻole maoli, ʻoiai ʻo ka mare ʻana i kahi kāne ʻilihune he hōʻailona ia o ka pōmaikaʻi a me ka hauʻoli, no ka mea, ua manaʻo ʻia ʻo ka ʻilihune ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻailona i ka waiwai. o ka uhane.
I kekahi manawa ua ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo ka male ʻana i kahi ʻelemakule ma ka moeʻuhane ke ʻano o ka pōmaikaʻi mai ka ʻike a i ʻole nā waiwai kālā. Inā he kanaka mana a hanohano paha ka mea aloha i loko o ka moeʻuhane, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ke kūʻokoʻa mai nā kaohi o ke kaiāulu i kaupalena i ke kūʻokoʻa o ke kaikamahine. I ka hihia o ka mare ʻana i ke kanaka me ka moʻolelo o ka moekolohe, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke lawe i nā manaʻo e hoʻomaopopo i ka mea moeʻuhane i ka pono e haʻalele i nā ʻano hewa a hoʻi i ke ala pololei.
ʻO ka hōʻailona o ka male ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hoʻokahi
Ua wehewehe ʻo Al-Nabulsi i ka ʻike ʻana o kahi kaikamahine hoʻokahi no ka male ʻana i ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka maikaʻi a me ka pōmaikaʻi e kali nei iā ia, a ua manaʻo ʻia hoʻi ka moeʻuhane he mea hoʻolaha i ka hoʻokō ʻana o kāna mau makemake a me kāna mau moeʻuhane. Hiki i ka hihiʻo ke hōʻike i kona pale ʻana i nā ala ola paʻakikī a me kona mamao mai nā hewa a me nā hewa.
Ināʻike ke kaikamahine iā ia iho e mare i ke kāne male ma ka moeʻuhane, e hōʻike ana kēia i kona akamai a me ka maikaʻi i kāna hana,ʻoiaiʻo ka mareʻana i ke kāne hemo iʻikeʻia he hōʻailona o ka waiwai a me ka nui o ke ola. No ka mare ʻana i ka wahine kāne make ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona paha ia o nā ʻike hikiwawe i hele ʻole e like me ka hoʻolālā.
No ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi, ʻo ka moeʻuhane o ka male ʻana i kahi ʻelemakule he hōʻailona ia i nā pilikia olakino a luhi paha, ʻoiai ʻo ka male ʻana i kahi ʻelemakule e hōʻike paha i ka naʻauao a me ke kūpaʻa i loaʻa i ke kaikamahine, ʻoiai ua manaʻo ʻia ʻo ka male ʻana i kahi mea make ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia. ka ukiuki a me ka nalowale o ka manaolana.
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana iā ʻoe iho i ka mare ʻana i kahi haumāna e hōʻike ana i ka piʻi ʻana o ke kūlana a me ka mahalo ʻO ka male ʻana i ke aliʻi a i ʻole ke aliʻi paha ke ʻano o ka lanakila ʻana ma luna o nā hoa paio, ʻoiai ʻo ka male ʻana i ka ʻīlio e hōʻike ana i kahi pilina me ke kanaka ʻino.
ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka male ʻana i ka makua kāne e hōʻike ana i ke alakaʻi a me ke alakaʻi i loaʻa i ke kaikamahine i ke ala pololei, a ʻo ka mare ʻana i ke kaikunāne he hōʻailona ia i ke kākoʻo a me ke kōkua i ka lanakila ʻana i nā pilikia. Eia naʻe, ināʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi iā ia iho e mare i kona makuahine ma ka moeʻuhane, e hōʻike ana kēia e haʻi anaʻo ia i kāna mau mea huna me kona makuahine.
ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane iʻaeʻole nā mākua e mare i ka mea i alohaʻia
Ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki i kahi kaikamahine hoʻokahi ke hōʻole i kāna ʻohana i kāna male ʻana i kahi mea āna i aloha ai e hōʻike i nā pilikia e kū nei i kona ola i kēlā me kēia lā. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i nā pilikia ma nā ʻano like ʻole, e like me ka hana, ka makemake e hele, a i ʻole ka paʻakikī o ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi pilina pili paʻa.
Inā ʻike ke kaikamahine ma ka moeʻuhane ua hōʻole kona ʻohana i kāna male ʻana me kahi kanaka kū hoʻomana, e like me ka sheikh, he hōʻailona paha kēia i ka noho ʻana o kekahi poʻe o kona ʻohana e haʻalele ana i ka hana hoʻomana. Eia naʻe, inā hōʻike ka moeʻuhane i ka hōʻole ʻana i kāna male ʻana i kahi mea hoʻomalu, e hōʻike paha ia i ka paʻakikī o ka hoʻokō ʻana i kāna mau pahuhopu, a i ʻole e hōʻike ʻia kēia i ka manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole o ka ʻohana e pili ana i ka poʻe ikaika a koʻikoʻi.
Ke moeʻuhane ke kaikamahine i ka hōʻole ʻana o kona ʻohana i kāna male ʻana i kahi mea kālepa, hōʻike paha kēia i nā poho kālā e kū mai ana ka ʻohana. Inā moeʻuhane ʻoe i ka hōʻole ʻana e mare i kahi kāne ʻilihune, hōʻike paha kēia i ke kaumaha a i ʻole nā pilikia kālā paʻakikī e hele nei ka ʻohana.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka male e like me Al-Nabulsi
I loko o ka hoʻoilina Islam, ʻo ka hihiʻo o ka male ʻana i ka moeʻuhane o ke kanaka he nui nā manaʻo. Manaʻoʻiaʻo ka mea e moeʻuhane ana e mare anaʻo ia i kahi kaikamahine maikaʻi i mareʻoleʻia, hiki ke hōʻike i ka lono maikaʻi a me ka hōʻailona o ka hoʻokōʻana i kāna mau manaʻolana a me kāna mau pahuhopu i ke ola.
ʻAʻole ia e ʻōlelo ʻo ka moeʻuhane o ka male ʻana i ka wahine i make e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻokō ʻana i ka hiki ʻole a me ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia ʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa. No kahi kanaka ʻōpio ʻaʻole i male a ʻike i kāna moeʻuhane e mare ana ʻo ia i kona kaikuahine, hōʻike kēia i ka maikaʻi a hōʻailona paha i nā mea e like me ka huakaʻi Hajj a i ʻole ka huakaʻi a loaʻa i nā kūleʻa he nui.
ʻOiai ʻo ka moeʻuhane o ke kāne e ʻike ana i kāna wahine e mare ana i kahi ʻē aʻe, he hōʻailona ia o ka pōmaikaʻi o ke ola. Inā moeʻuhaneʻo ia ua mareʻo ia i kona makuakāne, e hōʻike ana ka hihiʻo i ka hoʻoilina e loaʻa mai iā ia.
ʻO kahi kaikamahine hoʻokahi e moeʻuhane ana e mare i kahi kāne ʻike ʻole ʻia, hiki ke hoʻolaha i ka hoʻokō ʻana o nā makemake a me ka hiki ke kūleʻa i ke ola. Inā moeʻuhaneʻo ia e mare anaʻo ia i kāna mea i aloha ai, hiki paha i kēia ke hōʻike he mau pilikia e hiki ke kū i kona ala, akā e lanakilaʻo ia ma ka hopena.
Manaʻo ʻo Imam Nabulsi ʻo ka male ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ke aloha o ke Akua a me kāna mālama ʻana i kāna mau kauā, e hōʻike ana i kāna hana ʻana i ka hopena kanaka a me nā mea kupanaha e hiki mai ana. ʻOkoʻa ka wehewehe ʻana i nā moeʻuhane ʻO ka male ʻana i kahi kāne male i ka moeʻuhane o ka wahine hoʻokahi e hōʻike ana i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia e kū ai i ke ola.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka male no ke kanaka hoʻokahi ma ka moeʻuhane
Ke moeʻuhane ka mea hoʻokahi e mare ana i kahi wahine āna i ʻike ʻole ai a hopohopo e pili ana i kēia hoʻopaʻa ʻana, he hōʻailona kēia o nā kuleana hou a i ʻole nā kuleana e kau ʻia ma luna ona me ka makemake ʻole. Ma kekahiʻaoʻao, inā manaʻoʻo ia i ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli i ka moeʻuhane me kāna pilina me kahi wahine iʻikeʻoleʻia e ia, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ka hoʻokōʻana i nā pahuhopuʻoihana a loaʻa ka hana āna i makemake ai.
ʻO nā moeʻuhane male no ke kanaka hoʻokahi e hōʻike ana i nā loli maikaʻi e hiki mai ana i ke ola. ʻO ka male ka hōʻailona o ka hoʻololi ʻana mai ka noho kaʻawale a kaʻana like i ke ola me kahi hoa, e hōʻailona ana i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kahi mokuna hou i piha i ke aloha a me ke kākoʻo like ʻana. Hōʻike ka moeʻuhane i nā manawa ʻoihana hou e kūlike me nā mākau a me nā makemake o ka mea moeʻuhane.
ʻO ka male ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane e lawe i nā manaʻo o ka nūhou maikaʻi a me nā loli maikaʻi e hoʻolalelale i ke ala no ka lanakila ʻana i nā pilikia i hala a neʻe i ka ʻike ponoʻī. ʻO nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kumuhana o ka male e hiki ke hōʻike i ka pono e hoʻomākaukau no ka wā e hiki mai ana i piha i nā pono a me nā pono.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi wahine hoʻokahi e mare ana i kahi ʻelemakule
Ua ʻike ʻia kēia ʻike he nūhou maikaʻi e neʻe aku ke kaikamahine i kahi kūlana ʻoi aku ka pōmaikaʻi a me ka pōmaikaʻi, e hōʻike ana e loaʻa iā ia nā pōmaikaʻi a me ke ola ma ka wā e hiki mai ana.
I ka wehewehe ʻana i kēia moeʻuhane no kahi kaikamahine i maʻi ʻia, hiki ke manaʻo ʻia ka hihiʻo he hōʻailona o ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ke olakino a me ka hoʻōla. Aia nō ka naʻauao i loko o ka hihiʻo, ʻoiai e hōʻike ana i ka pono o ka ʻimi ʻana i ka ʻōlelo aʻo, ka noiʻi ʻana i ka mea kūpono, a me ka hoʻolohe ʻana i ka ʻōlelo aʻo ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana e hana i nā hoʻoholo koʻikoʻi.
Eia kekahi,ʻo ka hihiʻo he hōʻike ia o ka mahalo kaiaulu i loaʻa i ka wahine hoʻokahi, ka manaʻo no ka hoʻokōʻana i nā makemake, a me ka manaʻolana i nā kūlana pilikino a me nāʻoihana paʻa. ʻO ka male ʻana i kahi kanaka makua ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona hoʻi ia i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā ʻike ola, ke aʻo ʻana mai nā ʻike i hala, a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i kahi ola ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī, ma waho aʻe o ka mākaukau maikaʻi e kū i nā kuleana a me nā pilikia hou.
